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Brag Sheet

Student Process: Requesting a Letter of Recommendation

First, check your requirements:  Your college applications will specify if a recommendation letter is actually required. Most colleges do not require them, so make sure you need one before asking!
 

1.  Complete Your Brag Sheet

  • Make a copy of the Brag Sheet worksheet and fill it out completly.
  • Tip:  The more detail you provide, the better and more personalized your letter will be.

2.  Ask 3-4 Weeks in Advance

  • Personally ask a teacher or counselor if they would be willing to write a letter for you at least 3 to 4 weeks before your deadline.
  • Do not just send an email request out of the blue; have a conversation with them first.

3.  Provide Your Writer with the Details

  • Once they agree to write the letter, provide them with a copy of your completed Brag Sheet (can share electronically).
  • Note: Most colleges use digital platforms (like Common App) that require you to invite the teacher via their staff email.

4.  Monitor and Follow Up

  • Confidentiality:  Letters of recommendations are strictly confidential.  Teachers and counselors will submit them directely to the college or platform and will not share them with you
  • Track Submissions:  If it the student's responsibility to log into your application portals and verify that the letters have been successfully submitted before the deadline.
  • Need Help?  If a staff member runs into technical issues while trying to upload your letter, please have them reach out to Ms. Handrick for assistance.  

5.  Say Thank You

  • After your letters are submitted, send a brief thank-you email or a handwritten note to the staff member.  They volunteer their own time to write these for you!